KL’s LoveNotes #26: Use Your ResourcesJuly 31, 2013 - Author: KishaLynn Elliott
If you’re serious about finding true love as soon as possible, then you’re gonna have to use your resources. This is easier with an actual plan for love in place that thinks through some of the relevant resources you possess, including:
Financial Resources: How much money can you invest on related expenses such as clothing, social activities, online dating site membership fees, working with a life coach, etc?
Time Resources: How much time can you commit each day/week/month to implementing your plan, going on dates, etc. What are some ways you can leverage your time resources more effectively to increase your chances of being exposed to your ideal partner?
People Resources: Do you want to involve others in this process? Is there someone of interest that you want to connect with? People are your best resource in this process–build relationships, and as appropriate, tap into them to explore and create better options for yourself. If you choose to let people know what you are seeking, they’ll automatically start scanning their mental Rolodex to find it, or keep their eyes tuned for it.
Information Resources: These can be used to fill your life with opportunities for love. There is so much you can learn, online and off. Research things do to. Find specific people to meet. Discover new places to go. Study the art of flirting, dating, loving, and building a strong, healthy, lasting relationship or marriage.
You are working on attracting here. Attraction is a give and take. You are creating more of what you want, taking it into your life in alignment with what you ask for, and what you give in return. Use your resources to your full advantage. That’s what they are there for.
KishaLynn Elliott is a coach, inspirational speaker, and author of the bestselling e-book A D.R.E.A.M. Comes True: 5 Steps to Planning and Creating Your Personal Success Story NOW! She teaches single lesbians to Find Your Equal in love and in life. If you are ready for true love, schedule a free initial consultation and let’s work together…to get her.