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KL’s LoveNotes #26: Use Your Resources

July 31, 2013 - Author: KishaLynn Elliott

Kls Lovenote 26 Use Your Resources

 

If you’re serious about finding true love as soon as possible, then you’re gonna have to use your resources. This is easier with an actual plan for love in place that thinks through some of the relevant resources you possess, including: 

Financial Resources: How much money can you invest on related expenses such as clothing, social activities, online dating site membership fees, working with a life coach, etc?

Time Resources: How much time can you commit each day/week/month to implementing your plan, going on dates, etc. What are some ways you can leverage your time resources more effectively to increase your chances of being exposed to your ideal partner?

People Resources: Do you want to involve others in this process? Is there someone of interest that you want to connect with? People are your best resource in this process–build relationships, and as appropriate, tap into them to explore and create better options for yourself. If you choose to let people know what you are seeking, they’ll automatically start scanning their mental Rolodex to find it, or keep their eyes tuned for it.

Information Resources: These can be used to fill your life with opportunities for love. There is so much you can learn, online and off. Research things do to. Find specific people to meet. Discover new places to go. Study the art of flirting, dating, loving, and building a strong, healthy, lasting relationship or marriage.

You are working on attracting here. Attraction is a give and take. You are creating more of what you want, taking it into your life in alignment with what you ask for, and what you give in return. Use your resources to your full advantage. That’s what they are there for.

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KishaLynn Elliott is a coach, inspirational speaker, and author of the bestselling e-book A D.R.E.A.M. Comes True: 5 Steps to Planning and Creating Your Personal Success Story NOW! She teaches single lesbians to Find Your Equal in love and in life. If you are ready for true love, schedule a free initial consultation and let’s work together…to get her.

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KL’s LoveNotes #24: Celebrate The Journey To Love

July 30, 2013 - Author: KishaLynn Elliott

Kls Lovenote 24 Celebrate The Journey To Love

 

Being single can seem arduous, unless you know where to look for the joy. Rejoice in the fascinating elements of life and love that make the whole journey worthwhile.

Celebrate your uniqueness. You don’t need to be like anyone else to create the love you want in your life. Think about it. Do you want a partner that’s just like everyone else? Wouldn’t that be boring?

Celebrate the uniqueness of others. Just like you’re putting yourself out there, others are doing the same. While they won’t all offer the love you’re seeking, you can learn to value and appreciate everyone for what they brought to your life for a moment.

Celebrate the victories. The calls, the dates, the experiences are all signs of your success that will lead to the achievement of your actual desire. Romantic love is nearer to you than ever.

Go ahead and start the party now. Count it all good and find joy and gratitude in every experience on this journey. Doing so will help you embrace what you’ve learned, affirm and motivate you to keep going until the love you want has manifested.
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KishaLynn Elliott is a coach, inspirational speaker, and author of the bestselling e-book A D.R.E.A.M. Comes True: 5 Steps to Planning and Creating Your Personal Success Story NOW! She teaches single lesbians to Find Your Equal in love and in life. If you are ready for true love, schedule a free initial consultation and let’s work together…to get her.

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KL’s LoveNotes #22: Don’t Give Your Treasures Away To Everyone

July 29, 2013 - Author: KishaLynn Elliott

Kls Lovenote 22 Dont Give Your Treasures Away To Everyone

Save something for your one true love. Whatever your “something” is. You decide.

Before I met the love of my life, I decided that kissing would be my treasure. Even though I love a great kiss, it motivated me to know that the next lips that touched mine would belong to true love. I know this won’t work for everyone, so it’s just an example.

If you completely open your heart, body, mind, and other treasures to any and everyone, they may lack a certain luster when you’re ready to share them with the one that’s meant to receive them all.

What would you like to reserve exclusively for your one true love?

Maybe you save something physical.

Maybe it’s something emotional.

Maybe it’s something tangible, like access to your home.

Maybe it’s meeting the family.

Maybe it’s a part of your story.

Cherish yourself. Decide what your treasure is, then lock it away while you hit the dating scene. You’ll know when you find the one that deserves the key.

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KishaLynn Elliott is a coach, inspirational speaker, and author of the bestselling e-book A D.R.E.A.M. Comes True: 5 Steps to Planning and Creating Your Personal Success Story NOW! She teaches single lesbians to Find Your Equal in love and in life. If you are ready for true love, schedule a free initial consultation and let’s work together…to get her.

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KL’s LoveNotes #19: Take Yourself On A First Date

July 23, 2013 - Author: KishaLynn Elliott

Kls Lovenote 19 Take Yourself On A First Date

When was the last time you went on a really great date (or a really bad one, for that matter)?

Well, I can guarantee that your next first date is going to be with a TOTAL winner. Because the person you’ll be dating, is YOU.

You might be thinking, “I’m already single and spend enough time alone. That’s my problem!” But this isn’t a ForeverAlone activity of the loser variety. This is a visualization exercise that will increase your confidence and put you in the feeling place of having what you want now. The solution to the “problem” of spending time alone is learning to enjoy yourself more. 

Approach it from that perspective and you’ll be ready to hit the town with your first true love–yourself.

So, where are you going?
What will you wear? Dress and make yourself up like you would for the date with “the one”.

You can even buy yourself some flowers, if that’s what you’d like or expect from dating someone else.

Take yourself where you’d like to be taken. Do what you’d like to do, whether it’s something adventurous, romantic, a combination of the two or something else.

And to the greatest extent possible–ENJOY YOURSELF. You can also use some healthy imagination on your date-visualizing your perfect companion and generating the feelings of fun, joy, love, and any other allowing emotional energy. If this feels silly at first, just remember this: All things are created in the mind first. You are not just playing make-believe. Don’t let that be the feeling behind it. This is creation in progress. 

After your great first date with you, take stock in how you feel, and let it be a standard for every date you go on from now on. If you don’t enjoy spending time with someone else MORE THAN (not as much as, but MORE THAN) you enjoy spending time with yourself, then that could be a signal to keep moving. 

You can do this over and over if you’d like. There’s a saying that goes that love only finds you when you stop looking for it. Wouldn’t it be great if you were able to enjoy yourself so much that love had to come find you–and when it did, you were somewhere having the time of your life? Allow it to happen by trying.

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KishaLynn Elliott is a coach, inspirational speaker, and author of the bestselling e-book A D.R.E.A.M. Comes True: 5 Steps to Planning and Creating Your Personal Success Story NOW! She teaches single lesbians to Find Your Equal in love and in life. If you are ready for true love, schedule a free initial consultation and let’s work together…to get her.

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KL’s LoveNotes #16: Find Someone Whose Flaws Are Perfect For You

July 18, 2013 - Author: KishaLynn Elliott

Kls Lovenote 16 Find Someone Whose Flaws Are Perfect For You

Just like you’re not perfect, neither will be your ideal partner. There’s gonna be more than a few downsides to any person. It’s human nature to have flaws.

Does this mean you lower your standards and grab the first person breathing who smiles back? Heck no.

Does it mean that you accept that your one true love may be a 4.5 on a 5 point scale? Possibly.

You should have a clear sense of EXACTLY what you what in and from your next relationship. But also acknowledge that some of those criteria are weighted more heavily than others. You’re looking for compatibility over perfection. 

As you begin to manifest viable prospects for dating and love, take a look at what’s right about them, and what’s missing. Then, let your heart and brain have a little chat about what you truly feel. In the end, you’ll be loving a whole person–including their flaws. They’ll be doing the same with you.

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KishaLynn Elliott is a coach, inspirational speaker, and author of the bestselling e-book A D.R.E.A.M. Comes True: 5 Steps to Planning and Creating Your Personal Success Story NOW! She teaches single lesbians to Find Your Equal in love and in life. If you are ready for true love, schedule a free initial consultation and let’s work together…to get her.

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KL’s LoveNotes #15: Remain Open and Take Your Time

July 17, 2013 - Author: KishaLynn Elliott

Kls Lovenote 15 Remain Open And Take Your TimeAnything worth having is worth the time it takes to achieve it.

While there are stories of people meeting “the one”, falling in love, getting married fast, and living happily ever after, the fact is that for the rest of us, it’s a process.

Just like finding the right career.

Just like building financial wealth.

Just like getting into shape and manifesting your ideal body.

Just like planning a major trip or purchase.

It’s important to know this from the start. This way, you can relax into the process of change. Also, to the greatest extent possible, you can enjoy it.

If you feel like it’s taking a long time to manifest the love you seek, then it’s possible that you’re trying too hard to force it.

Take a different approach–don’t force. Allow. Be open.

Affirm that all things, including love, are unfolding perfectly in your life, in the right timing.

There is an abundance of time and love available. The Universe is friendly to your desires.

The only thing you can do wrong at this point is to decide This Stuff’s Not Working, and close yourself off from the love that’s on its way to you right now. Realize that it IS on the way BECAUSE you intend to manifest it and you remain open to it. 

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KishaLynn Elliott is a coach, inspirational speaker, and author of the bestselling e-book A D.R.E.A.M. Comes True: 5 Steps to Planning and Creating Your Personal Success Story NOW! She teaches single lesbians to Find Your Equal in love and in life. If you are ready for true love, schedule a free initial consultation and let’s work together…to get her.

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KL’s LoveNotes #13: Use Music To Get Into The Vibration Of Love

July 15, 2013 - Author: KishaLynn Elliott

Kls Lovenote 13 Use Music To Get Into The Vibration Of Love

OK bear with me. I need to get all metaphysicsubconciousiggityblah for just a moment.

All emotion is energy. All energy vibrates on a frequency. That frequency attracts MORE energy vibrating on the SAME frequency back to the source. That’s the Law of Attraction. That’s how This Stuff’s Working!

So, what’s that have to do with love? Well, love is an emotion. Loving energy vibrates on a frequency that attracts more love back to the source–which in this case, would be you? Do you want to attract love into your life? Then you need to vibrate on the love frequency. One powerful, amazing, and quite simple way to do this is through music.

I’ve learned (and have taught others) how to use music as a very powerful tool in your Emotional Energy arsenal. If you’re stuck in feelings you can’t shift out of–loneliness, doubt, fear, resentment–anything emotions that might be repelling love from your life, then music can give you an immediate boost, aligning you with the right energy. The best part about it is, all you have to do is press play.

Create a Loving playlist–either in your music library in your computer, on your smartphone or mp3 player, on a CD or on YouTube (my personal favorite). Fill the playlist with songs that put you into the energetic flow of love. Populate it with music that gets you in the vibration of the love you’re seeking for your life. Choose the tunes that make your heart sing out! Then, listen…listen until you feel the music, the lyrics, the beat, the love, sinking right into your heart and soul. You’ll know it because you’ll feel wonderful, even if you’re by yourself. If you feel the urge to sing–sing! Go deeper! Strengthen that vibration! Wanna dance? Move it and imagine that true love being right there in step with you.

Know that when you’re doing this, you’re not simply playing make believe. You are CREATING love, attracting love through your energetic vibration. Music is such a powerful tool. There’s no limit to the number of ways you can use it TODAY to step into alignment with what you want. 

To help you along, I’ve embedded my Emotional Energy Shifting-LOVING playlist from YouTube to get you started and inspire the creation of your own. Feel free to subscribe to the This Stuff’s Working! YouTube Channel for more Emotional Energy shifting playlists! 

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KishaLynn Elliott is a coach, inspirational speaker, and author of the bestselling e-book A D.R.E.A.M. Comes True: 5 Steps to Planning and Creating Your Personal Success Story NOW! She teaches single lesbians to Find Your Equal in love and in life. If you are ready for true love, schedule a free initial consultation and let’s work together…to get her. 

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KL’s LoveNotes #11: Start Having More Fun With Like-Minded People

July 11, 2013 - Author: KishaLynn Elliott

Kls Lovenote 11 Start Having More Fun With Like-minded People

If you feel trepidation about returning to or continuing the dating grind, here’s a more allowing approach: simply start socializing more with people like yourself.

If you’re an extrovert, chances are you already have a vibrant social life. Fine-tune and choose activities where you are surrounded by people that are similar to you. Even if you are introverted, you can find ways to interact with people with similar interests in smaller, more relaxing and controlled settings.

Adding like-minded friends to your life increases your love resources. It also combats the loneliness and isolation that can occur when you’re single.

As nice as it would be, love rarely just comes knocking at your door. Any relationship worth devoting the rest of your life to will likely start out as a deep, enjoyable friendship cultivated through shared interests. If you begin to create more of these in your life, your days as a single person will be numbered, and a lot more fulfilling. You will you open many more doors for true love to walk through, while living free from the pressure of finding “the one”.

Come out from behind your shell (or your online dating profile). Log off of the internet and check-in to real life. Ask around or do some research. Find the people out there that are like you. Then, get out there and ENJOY THEM!

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KishaLynn Elliott is a coach, inspirational speaker, and author of the bestselling e-book A D.R.E.A.M. Comes True: 5 Steps to Planning and Creating Your Personal Success Story NOW! She teaches single lesbians to Find Your Equal in love and in life. If you are ready for true love, schedule a free initial consultation and let’s work together…to get her. 

 

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KL’s LoveNotes #10: Know What You Have To Offer

July 10, 2013 - Author: KishaLynn Elliott

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Take a self-inventory and call out everything you are bringing to the table in your next relationship. Think through the following:

  • What do you love most about yourself?

  • What do others love about you?

  • What are your most attractive physical features?

  • What are the top three benefits that the love of your life will enjoy?

This inventory serves multiple purposes:

-It gets you feeling good about yourself. Because c’mon–you’re freaking awesome!

-Like attracts like according to the Law of Attraction, so you get clarity on what type of person you are best poised to easily manifest in your life.

-If you are clear on everything you’re bringing to your next relationship, you’re less likely to settle for less than what you’re worth.

-If you choose to try online dating, you’ve got a GREAT head start on writing your profile.

Confidence is sexy and self-awareness is essential. If you know your merits and polish them to a shiny finish, your dream love may notice you from a mile away without you even having to “search”.

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KishaLynn Elliott is a coach, inspirational speaker, and author of the bestselling e-book A D.R.E.A.M. Comes True: 5 Steps to Planning and Creating Your Personal Success Story NOW! She teaches single lesbians to Find Your Equal in love and in life. If you are ready for true love, schedule a free initial consultation and let’s work together…to get her. 

 

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KL’s LoveNotes #7: Paint A Picture Of Your Perfect Love

July 7, 2013 - Author: KishaLynn Elliott

Kls Lovenote 7 Paint A Picture Of Your Perfect Love

Will you recognize the love of your life when you find it, or when it finds you? It’s so much easier to know when you spend time seeing that love manifested in your life now through visualization.

Take a moment each day to get still. Close your eyes and let your mind paint a picture of having your dream love. No need to see a specific person or face right now–it’s far more important to feel the love, experience your own enjoyment of it and thereby increase your belief in its possibility.

Take a mental walk on the beach with your ideal mate. Paint the beautiful colors of an ocean sunset as you stroll hand in hand with that silhouette of your ideal partner.

Imagine sitting down to dinner at a fancy restaurant. Draw the flame of a flickering candle that sits upon the table between you and the one for you.

Hit the hottest dancefloor in your mind and visualize yourself getting all boogie down with your dream dance partner and life partner!

Paint the picture. It will help you recognize the love when it enters your life. More importantly, it will help you feel good now, which matters first, foremost, and forever.

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KishaLynn Elliott is a coach, inspirational speaker, and author of the bestselling e-book A D.R.E.A.M. Comes True: 5 Steps to Planning and Creating Your Personal Success Story NOW! She teaches single lesbians to Find Your Equal in love and in life. If you are ready for true love, schedule a free initial consultation and get to the love you seek in twelve weeks. 

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