If you feel trepidation about returning to or continuing the dating grind, here’s a more allowing approach: simply start socializing more with people like yourself.

If you’re an extrovert, chances are you already have a vibrant social life. Fine-tune and choose activities where you are surrounded by people that are similar to you. Even if you are introverted, you can find ways to interact with people with similar interests in smaller, more relaxing and controlled settings.

Adding like-minded friends to your life increases your love resources. It also combats the loneliness and isolation that can occur when you’re single.

As nice as it would be, love rarely just comes knocking at your door. Any relationship worth devoting the rest of your life to will likely start out as a deep, enjoyable friendship cultivated through shared interests. If you begin to create more of these in your life, your days as a single person will be numbered, and a lot more fulfilling. You will you open many more doors for true love to walk through, while living free from the pressure of finding “the one”.

Come out from behind your shell (or your online dating profile). Log off of the internet and check-in to real life. Ask around or do some research. Find the people out there that are like you. Then, get out there and ENJOY THEM!

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KishaLynn Elliott is a coach, inspirational speaker, and author of the bestselling e-book A D.R.E.A.M. Comes True: 5 Steps to Planning and Creating Your Personal Success Story NOW! She teaches single lesbians to Find Your Equal in love and in life. If you are ready for true love, schedule a free initial consultation and let’s work together…to get her.