There’s so many ways and places that you could meet your next love. It’s better to allow that love to find the best way to flow into your life rather than you going out trying to find one person in seven billion people on earth.

Give yourself a winning edge by determining all the different roads and paths your soulmate can use to reach you. Make it a visual exercise and have fun with it. Here’s how:

First, find a great photo of yourself–a headshot where your smiling face is showing. The picture should represent how you’d like the one for you to see you. You might want to look sexy in it, be glammed up and gorgeous in it, or just casual natural you. You might be doing something fun in, or it might capture a special moment in your life. You’ll know the right photo when you find or take it.

Next, place that photo in the center of a blank piece of paper, or a Word Document. Then, draw a big heart around it.

At the top of the page, write: THE WAY TO MY HEART. You can also use your name instead of “my” to make it more personal.

Now, start drawing lines, paths or roads that lead to your photo heart in the center from various directions. You can have as many or as few as you’d like, but I recommend starting with at least 3-5 paths on your map.

On each of the roads, write one possible way that your perfect partner might meet or access you. The options are only limited by your imagination, so you can go wild here, or keep it practical. Think about the places you like or want to go, the things you like or want to do. Here’s some examples:

• Church
• School
• Volunteering with…
• Online sites 
• Social Media
• Introduced by Friends or Family
• My favorite museum
• Book club
• Dance club
• Concerts and shows
• Local grocery store
• Etc…

Be sure to create paths that you’d actually WANT to meet the love of your life. Some people won’t want to date a coworker or meet in a bar. But, don’t take it too seriously either. The truth is you won’t really know how you will ultimately stumble upon the one, and you don’t need to. This is a visualization exercise, the point of which is to generate tons of allowing Emotional Energy for you so that you can see there are many ways to find the love you seek, or for it to find you. The “map” can also be used as a great resource for creating your dating strategic plan down the line.
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KishaLynn Elliott is a coach, inspirational speaker, and author of the bestselling e-book A D.R.E.A.M. Comes True: 5 Steps to Planning and Creating Your Personal Success Story NOW! She teaches single lesbians to Find Your Equal in love and in life. If you are ready for true love, schedule a free initial consultation and let’s work together…to get her.