Just like you’re not perfect, neither will be your ideal partner. There’s gonna be more than a few downsides to any person. It’s human nature to have flaws.

Does this mean you lower your standards and grab the first person breathing who smiles back? Heck no.

Does it mean that you accept that your one true love may be a 4.5 on a 5 point scale? Possibly.

You should have a clear sense of EXACTLY what you what in and from your next relationship. But also acknowledge that some of those criteria are weighted more heavily than others. You’re looking for compatibility over perfection. 

As you begin to manifest viable prospects for dating and love, take a look at what’s right about them, and what’s missing. Then, let your heart and brain have a little chat about what you truly feel. In the end, you’ll be loving a whole person–including their flaws. They’ll be doing the same with you.

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KishaLynn Elliott is a coach, inspirational speaker, and author of the bestselling e-book A D.R.E.A.M. Comes True: 5 Steps to Planning and Creating Your Personal Success Story NOW! She teaches single lesbians to Find Your Equal in love and in life. If you are ready for true love, schedule a free initial consultation and let’s work together…to get her.